It has been said that it is inevitable, that at some point in time in an opposite sex friendship one of the two will develop feelings for the other. That when two people click in any way shape or form it is hard to imagine your life without that person. I guess in a way it’s true, but not every one develops feelings.
You have to realize that sometimes taking things to the next level is not going to be the ultimate best situation. Relationships are tricky enough when they are new. Knowing someone’s past discretion’s and the things that they have been through, the things you have seen them go through, makes things a little different. Love is not an easy situation, in anyway. I think if you want to take a chance to get to that next step, you have to be okay with possibly losing a friend.
Taking that next step is scary. When it is with someone you already care deeply about, someone you already love, but have never fully really thought about having a relationship with. Any two people can make a relationship work; the key is both have to be willing to put forth the effort you know? At the end of the day you have to hope that what you two share is strong enough to conquer anything, even the risk of a broken heart.
I think if you have undying feelings let them know, but if your friendship is solid, there really is no reason of why you have take it to the next level, whether you end up walking down the aisle, or being best friends, at least you have them in your life.. Still at times, when I look over it, I believe in telling the person you love, that you love them. To accept it or not, its the next level. Years later, you wouldn't want to regret for not expressing your love. Its just the matter of taking the risk.
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Till we meet again, Adios!.
Love,Lyana.
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